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My Summer Job

Last summer I worked with kids. It was an after summer school program that lasted 6 weeks. It was my first time ever working with kids and I didn’t really know what to expect. In those 6 weeks, I realized that I definitely did not want to be a teacher. I respect teachers, but they are definitely underpaid and they are way more patient than I am.

When I went to university a few years ago, my goal was to become a history teacher. I love reading, learning, and talking about history and wanted to share my passion with others. I originally wanted to be a teacher for community college, but I would’ve needed a masters degree and my grades weren’t good enough for me to get that.

Not sure what I expected about working with kids, but I didn’t realize it was so hard. Kids can be unpredictable and there’s a fine line between being a pushover and way too strict. Summer time was a bit more fun because they had a little bit more freedom and it was less structured. I am glad i worked there because at least I found out teaching was not something for me and while I wouldn’t mind working with kids in the future, it wouldn’t be in a school setting.

After the 6 weeks were up, I had a few weeks off. I was going to continue working with the kids but at a different location. However, after only 3 days working there, I knew it wasn’t for me. The after school program was way too strict for me, I was assigned to the 5th graders when I had mentioned I would prefer younger students, and I was expected to teach them science. Im not an expert in science and I felt like I was expected to take my work home, which is something that wasn’t convenient for me since I am a single mom to a 4 year old. I was expected to do a lesson plan for the next 11 weeks. I had never done a lesson plan before this and had no idea how to do this. I only had 2 days and it had to be very detailed, including lessons I would teach and materials I would need. It was very hard to get any work done while taking care of my daughter.

I ended up quitting that job after only 3 days and was unemployed for about 2 months. I am now working in a job I enjoy and have been there almost 6 months.

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Why I Quit My Job

It has been three months since I quit my job and I have zero regrets. I didn’t hate my job, but here are the main reasons I decided to leave after being there for 2 years. This wasn’t something I decided to do out of nowhere. I had wanted to quit my job since at least April 2020 and finally quit in September 2021.

I never planned for staying as long as I did. It was supposed to be a temporary job. I was only planning on staying there for 6 months or so, but then the pandemic happened. Jobs all over the place were closing or switching to work from home, so I just decided to stay at my job. Another reason I stayed is because in May 2021, they gave us a temporary raise from $16 to $21. Not a bad pay for working at a grocery store. This temporary raise ended in September and shortly after that I ended up quitting.

My coworkers and manager were great, but one of the biggest reasons I decided to finally quit was because of my schedule. I wanted to work at least 20 hours or more each week. However, I was working 4-12 hours most weeks. I also wanted to work only in the morning. After all, when I was hired, I was told I would be working mornings, from 3am-9am. My schedule wasn’t consistent and I was constantly working different shifts every week. Some days at 3am, other days at 5am, and still other days at 1pm. As a result of these random schedules, my sleep was horrible. I could never get used to sleeping at the same time every night because every day I had a different shift.

The last big reason is that I wanted to quit was to spend more time with my daughter. I had been working ever since she was 3 months old and was tired of missing out. While I didn’t work many hours, she spent a lot of time at my mom’s house, especially on the days when I worked in the morning. I would drop her off around 4pm or 5pm so that I could get ready for bed and be asleep by 7pm or 8pm. Then after getting out of work, I would go home to nap and would pick up my daughter later in the afternoon or until my day off. I have been spending so much time with her these past few months. Not only at home playing together and reading together, but we have been able to go to Disneyland, Knott’s Berry Farm, and Universal Studios to name a few.

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Looking Back at 2017

A lot of people say 2017 was a bad year, but for me personally 2017 was a great year! Here are a few things that happened in 2017.

Graduated from Cal State LA with a bachelors degree in history
After so many years of going to school, both back in community college and Cal State LA, i could finally say I got my degree. It was tough at times, going to work part time and going to school full time. To make things harder, I didn’t have a car for most of my college years, which meant i was usually going to school and work on the bus. It took me a little longer than I had expected to get my degree, but better later than never right?

Got a job at my local gym
In August I decided that I needed to get a second job because I wasn’t getting enough hours at the supermarket where I was cashier. So i decided to apply to a few local areas. Someone I knew from the gym where I have been going since 2016 told me they were hiring there. I decided to give it a shot even though I felt there was no way they would hire me. I was wrong. Within two weeks of Applying, I got hired! I was so happy. For three months, I worked both jobs. It was hard at times, but I decided to stick with it. At the end of 2017, I decided two jobs was two much and I needed to pick one job. My choice was easy. I picked the local gym.

Which brings me to this major thing i did in 2017. I finally left the job I had for 5 years.
This was pretty scary, not going to lie. I was not happy at this job, I spent all year being miserable, but I was too scared to quit. I had originally planned to quit in May after my graduation, then I decided summer I would get more hours so I Should stay a little longer. then decided I would quit in September, that didn’t happen either. I said I would quit around Thanksgiving, that didn’t happen either. I finally said that I would quit December 31, and i didn’t want to keep postponing it. I gave the manager my two weeks notice on December 15, 2017, the whole process was easier than I had expected. December 31, 2017 was my last day and it was a really long 8 hour shift. Before I quit, they gave me a certificate for being there five years. It was bittersweet. On one hand, I was happy to be getting away from retail life and rude, demanding, self entitle customers, but I will miss the friends that I made while working there.

I ran my first marathon
I never thought I would one day be able to run 26.2 miles, but on my 26th birthday, I decided I wanted to celebrate turning 26 years old in a big way, so that’s when I decided to run a marathon. My first ever marathon was in Long Beach, California and it took me about 5 hours and 17 minutes to finish. it took me four months to train for it. I thought this would be my only marathon ever, but I signed up for the LA Marathon, March 2018, and I am currently training for that.

Went to Orlando for the first time to attend Wrestlemania
I went with my friend Giovanna. We have gone to Portland, Oregon, Washington DC, and now Orlando together. We went to Universal City Walk, where I had the best tasting milkshake ever, red velvet with a red velvet cake. Yum! We also went to Universal Studios, where we went on so many rides and got to visit the Wizarding World of Harry Potter. I tried butterbeer for the first time. Besides Wrestlemania, we also went to Monday Night Raw, NXT Takeover, and the WWE Hallf of Fame. This was a once in a lifetime opportunity and I had so much fun. We got to meet a few wrestlers at one of the events, inclduing Baron Corbin and R Truth. Wrestlemania was amazing. Our seats were so close. We got to see Undertaker retire, Seth Rollins vs Triple H, Hardy Boyz make their return, John Cena propose to Nikki Bella, and many other things.

Went to Las Vegas
I had never been to Las Vegas, which is crazy because I am 26 years old and most people go there for their 21st birthday. I never had much interest. Until I decided to run the Rock’n’Roll Half Marathon and 5k. I went with my mom, grandpa, and three of my sisters. My mom drove us there and it took forever to get there. I had fun there, i didn’t gamble once, but i did have fun walking around and trying the all the different drinks. One of my favorite things that I did was getting on the roller coaster at the New York New York hotel.

Visited San Francisco twice
The first time was with my family, my mom, three sisters, and brother. We did all the touristy things, like visit the Golden Gate Bridge and the Full House/Fuller House house. We ate crepes and clam chowder, which was super good. The second time I went, it was only with my grandpa and my sister Destiny. I went to run the San Francisco Half Marathon. It was one of my best races. I can’t wait to go back to San Francisco this year. It is a much nicer place than i ever thought. It is one of my top favorite places to run.

Went to a Tim McGraw concert
Tim McGraw is by far one of my favorite country singers. I had the chance to see him and his wife Faith Hill in concert at the Staples during the summer. I loved it. It was so great seeing them. I was so happy when they announced they would be coming back in 2018, I have to see them again. I also discovered a new singer whose music I love. Her name is Rachel Platten and I feel like her song Fight Song is my theme song in life! Haha

Watched my two favorite soccer teams play each other
Went to the Coliseum in Downtown LA with my sister Angelina to watch Real Madrid vs Manchester City. Manchester City won, but it was fun just seeing them. While I was there, I ran into my friend from work and his friend, who is a manager at my old job.

These are the major things that happened in 2017. I was also blessed to meet people who I now consider my friends, I lost a couple friends, but made new ones. I spent time with my family, boyfriend, and friends. Hope 2018 is just as good or even better than 2017 was!

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Farewell Retail Life

After 5 long years, my time as a cashier at a supermarket have come to an end. It wasn’t all bad but there are a lot of things I defnitely won’t miss. I will miss some of my co-workers and friends that I made over the last five years. Here are the things I won’t miss. 

1. I won’t miss working holidays, people seem to be even worse around holidays esp during Thanksgiving and Christmas.

2. People asking the dumbest questions, one example is “are you open/closed” (without bothering to look at the light)

3. Customers who want to argue about prices when something is lik 20 cents more than they expected.

4. People not reading the tags and getting upset when they don’t get the sale price because they didn’t get the minimum or they got more than the limit.

5. When people with 15+ items go into the express line and get mad when you tell them to go to another checkstand. 

6. People who are rude, they either ignore you when you greet them or ask you questions while you’re helping someone else. 

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Do’s and Don’ts of Being a Customer

Having worked at a grocery store for nearly 4 years now and dealing with customers on a daily basis, I can say that I have seen many types of customers and dealt with many problems. Here are some things you should and should not do as a customer. They can apply to any grocery store, retail store, restaurant, etc. they would help make our days so much better!

1. Look to see if the light is on (or off) before asking us if we are open. Usually light on means we’re open, light off means we’re closed. If you’re not sure, you can ask, but check first! It gets annoying having to repeat ourselves over and over again because of customers being too lazy.

2. Please get off your phones during your transaction. Even if your cashier isn’t talking to you, being on the phone is rude, whether you’re just texting or making a call. it isn’t that difficult to stay off your phone for 3-5 minutes. Besides the fact that it’s rude, people who use their phone aren’t paying attention so the cashiers has to keep repeating themselves and people on their phones tend to be much slower in packing their bags and paying for their things.

3. If an employee is walking out of the store, to the bathroom, if they are on their phone, or have headphones on, DO NOT BOTHER THEM!!! They are most likely on their break. This is the only time they have to rest, so don’t waste their time. Look for someone who is clearly working and can help you.

4. We are not a bank. Try not to pay using a $100 bill if your bill comes out to $20 or less. We might not have change or if we do, you will basically wipe out our tills. Go to the bank first and get smaller bills if you have to.

5. Learn to be patient. No one likes to wait, but waiting 5-10 mins in line is nothing to get upset about. Complaining loudly or yelling at the cashier won’t make the lines go faster.

6. If we greet you, don’t be rude and ignore us. Or worse, don’t interrupt us to say “I have 3 cases of water” or whatever. Your rudeness will annoy your cashier and they might not be as friendly as if you had just answered our greeting then told us what you had.

7. Once you pay us and we open our register, don’t say “Oh, I have the change”. We are usually in a hurry with the customers and don’t want to end up short on money just because you are trying to get rid of change.

8. If their is a sign that says 10 items or less (or 15, 20 items or less) DO NOT go into that line if you clearly have a cart full of groceries. If we tell you to go to another line, don’t complain, don’t say you’re not doing anything, or ignore us. Just leave. We can get in trouble with other customers who might then go complain to our managers because we let someone in that line with more than 10 items.

9. If you get a basket, please empty it out yourselves. Don’t expect us to do it for you. This slows down our line and many of us will just dump everything on the conveyor belt at once. Also, this is a hassle for us short people who ca barely reach into the baskets in the first place.

10. If we ask how many you have of an item (whether it’s bakery goods or fruit), tell us HOW MANY, not how much. For example, if we ask you how many bell peppers you have, say 3 or 4, don’t say $2 worth. It’s much easier for us.

11. Don’t start unloading your items until the person in front of you has finished unloading all of their groceries. This is very inconsiderate of you and the other peson might not have enough room to put their groceries

12. Use the dividers. That’s why they are there. we don’t know who the groceries belong to, especially when everything is so close to each other. We might just charge everything together and then the customer will get mad at us, even if it’s their fault for not using the dividers.

13. Remember your manners! Please and thank you are still important. If you decide you don’t want an item, let us know and we will gladly take it off for you, but ask us politely “Can you please remove the fruit? thank you” Don’t just be so demanding and say, “I don’t want that, take it off.”

14. If you don’t want an item, give it to your cashier. Don’t just leave it around the store, ESPECIALLY if it is a meat product, dairy, or any other frozen item, which could go bad if left out and then we can’t sell it.

15. Read the whole sign. If there is a sale, make sure you read if there is a minimum that you need to buy or if there is a limit.

16. Don’t try to give us your money before we have even started your transaction.

17. Don’t hit on or flirt with your cashier. Whether you are a male or female, this is never okay. We are there to work, not to get hit on. You making comments to us makes us uncomfortable. Understand that we are only being nice because of the who customer service thing.

18. Don’t say racist things or sexist jokes.

19. Don’t open or eat anything before you’ve paid for it, especially things like fruit. Many of the fruits we sell are sold by weight. We can’t just charge you for a single banana or apple without weighing it first. Plus, most of the fruit should be washed anyways before eating it, so that’s also pretty gross.

20. If we tell you the chip reader doesn’t work and you need to swipe your card, just listen to us. We know what we’re talking about.

21. Don’t make the same jokes we heard over and over. Ie, “I just made that” (when we check your $50/$100 bill), “You look bored” (when we are at the checkstand with no customers.”

22. If we close at 10pm, don’t come to the store at 955pm and stay for half an hour just browsing. We want to go home too.

23. Paying in change is a big no-no. Especially when it’s more than $10. It slows down the line and is a hassle for us to count. Also, don’t pay in singles if it’s more than $20.